Dear Christian Mentor, Can you walk with me through Lent? (Day 8)
Outside Influences
"Am I now trying to win the approval of humn beings or of God? Or am I trying to please people? If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ.”
~ Galatians 1:10
Dear Christian Mentor,
I have participated in Lent many times, but it often feels like something I should do rather than an experience that draws me closer to the Lord. Can you walk with me through the season of Lent?
Dear Mentee,
As we continue our Lenten journey, let’s reflect on the power of outside influence.
In Galatians 1:10, Paul asks, “Am I now seeking the approval of people, or of God?” This question is more than rhetorical—it calls for self-examination. Lent creates space to examine what quietly competes with God for authority in our lives. Most of us do not intentionally drift. We begin to measure ourselves by applause, affirmation, reputation, or acceptance. When others’ opinions begin to shape our identity or decisions, our focus subtly shifts from obedience to image management.
Application: People-pleasing rarely announces itself. It often disguises itself as kindness, responsibility, or even ministry. Read through the list below and reflect on how you can relate to each statement.
Saying “yes” when wisdom calls for “no.”
Adjusting beliefs depending on the audience.
Downplaying your faith in secular settings.
Monitoring social media for validation.
Serving primarily to be noticed.
Feeling resentment when your efforts go unseen.
At its core, seeking approval is an identity issue. When we forget that we already belong to Christ, we start working for what has already been given.
Today’s Promise: When you put God first, your worth flows from belonging to Christ—not from what others think, say, or withhold. His approval is not earned. It is received.
Today’s Fast: Fast from seeking human approval. Intentionally rest in your identity in Christ.
Resist looking for reassurance.
Avoid checking your phone or social media for validation.
Do something good for God that no one else will notice.
Let your “yes” be because you want to obey God—not because you want people to like you.
~ Christian Mentor
